The best thing you could do for anyone that you love, is be happy! 

And the very worst thing that you could do for anyone that you love, is be unhappy, and then ask them to to try to change it, when there is nothing that anybody else can do that will make you happy. 

If it is your dominant intent to hold yourself in vibrational harmony with who you really are, you could never offer any action that would cause anybody else to be unhappy.

---Abraham

Hypnotheraoy making people happy for hundreds of years!!!!!